Aggression - a disease unsayable

We all come from childhood. And pihosomaticheskie disease often "terrorizing" us from the fact that, having arisen many years ago, alas, they have remained unrecognized. A young child has not learned to cope with his aggression.

By psychosomatic disorders (AKP) are the painful events that were triggered by the appropriate psycho-emotional factors and traumatic events.

Among such diseases:

psychogenic disorders of the gastrointestinal tract : chronic gastritis , Biliary dyskinesia, reactive pancreatitis, in some cases - stomach ulcer   and duodenum.

Skin disorders   - Eczema, atopic dermatitis.

movement disorders   - Tics, hyperkinesis, seizures.

endocrine disorders and - amenorrhea, bleeding, anorexia nervosa, obesity.

pain Most often headaches.

Risk factors

Traumatic circumstances in the case of psychosomatic diseases play a role of detonator, triggering the mechanism of the disease. Behind predisposition to disease   responsible heredity, temperament and personality characteristics, social conditions. When all factors are the same, and people exposed to psychological trauma - there is a disease.

According to experts, among those who are at risk to get AKP First of all, children are easily excitable and capricious, difficult to adapt to the new conditions that respond to external circumstances rapidly, with an excess of negative emotions. If we talk about personal characteristics of these children, they are distinguished by isolation, sensitivity and touchiness, excessive shyness, distrust.

Among the psychosocial factors, triggering the development of the AKP, there are a lot of circumstances. These include, for example, include

- As a result of parental conflicts within the cold or on the contrary, over the guardianship and authority, as well as the enmity between family members.

- The specificity of staying in kindergartens and schools, where the child has to spend too much time or be in a hostile atmosphere, with pressure from teachers and other children.

- Nonmarital traumatic circumstances such as threats of a terrorist attack, or a job loss.

The mechanism of the disease

Piskhosomaticheskie disease   - It is in some sense a consequence of psychological protection, which is provided to us by our brain and nervous sistema.Chto, for example, takes place in a situation for us painful, unpleasant? We unconsciously repress, "squeezing" all that makes us worry. Such a mechanism of repression - our protective mental reflex. We "forget" about the troubles refuse to recognize the existence of problems and analyze them. But being expelled from consciousness, the problems do not disappear. They go to the next level of existence - flesh. And if, say, the man had a child on a regular basis to suppress negative emotions, over time, he may be a whole bunch of psycho-emotional disorders due to the "unreacted" feelings.

Teenage Depression - a symptom of the AKP

It is often wrong with the child's parents notice when he becomes a teenager. The teenager begins remain depressed , No interest (misses), becomes apathetic or vice versa - is too irritable. All of these can be signs of adolescent depression Which, in turn, suggests that the child AKP.

Psychiatrists call depression aggression directed at himself. What can cause the adolescent feeling of aggression, resentment, heartache? Relationships in the family, with parents or peers at school, the fear experienced by a situation which he can not tell. The child does not know how to express gripping his bitter feelings, their anger, resentment, rage. As a result, he takes up arms against it -   Depression occurs .

In the case of teenage depression is necessary medication and psychotherapy, especially the family. Parents need to review their relationship with the child, and possibly change them, learning to turn to teenager, first of all, as a friend, a very dear and close. Without condescension and superiority, and on an equal footing - the warmth and confidence.

Aggressive reaction

A young child often denied the right to express aggression. "You can not fight! " "Do not shout! "" Stop hysterical! "- Ordered child mom and dad. And the kid is permeated by the idea that he was not allowed to express their grievances and discontent. In fact   aggressive emotions   - A consequence of mental stress, which is the child still can not shoot yourself. Just do not know how. So he shouted, stomping feet, throws toys. Exit your negative feelings pipsqueak can only with the help of motor - the only means available to it. According to psychologists, if you stop it, can form physical terminals. At worst - will begin to accumulate aggression .

The child must be taught to give vent to feelings. For example, to invite him to shout out loud or let lie on the floor, or to kick the pillow. The main thing - not to drive the baby in the head the idea that if he gets angry, then he - poor, unworthy to be loved. He should think of yourself as you are, so as not to suffer later from the realization of their own imperfections.

Treatment and prevention

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