Men are considered to be the hunters, and if they get sex on the first date , Then any "hunting interest" to the woman allegedly disappeared along with the need to win and achieve it. On the other hand, a woman is like too accessible, what kind should disappoint the stronger sex. That is why many psychologists believe sex on the first date big mistake.
But Bethany Marshall, Ph.D. from the UK calls quickly write off the archive this rule. In her view, modern men and women in general are too addicted to a life according to the laws of painted pre-communication, which adversely affects the real feelings.
"Playing special rules makes you much less listen to their own inner voice and experience, - says Dr. Marshall. - For example, the girls know that on the first date, you should not avoid intimacy. Allows only superficial kisses and innocent touch. But all occasions individual, and it is not necessary to record them in a strict mathematical formulas. "
On the opinion of scientists agree and researchers from the University of Iowa, which found that sex on the first date It could easily turn into a long and deep feelings. "People view physical intimacy as a quite predictable, normal part of life and do not believe that it can poison or" infect "relations at their very start, - said study author Dr. Anthony Peyk. - Our survey showed that much of the lengthy novels today young people began with the so-called casual sex. "
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