Sex after childbirth: when to start?

British journalists have decided to interview some young mothers to find out how long they have been waiting for the first sex after childbirth. This figure turned out to be different - from six weeks to a year.

Six weeks   - 27-year-old Amy Dorrington lives with his partner, Ben, and 10-meyachnym son. "Why I decided to take sex so early? - Says Amy. - I know that Ben did not change me, but why take the risk? Men need to show affection and love, because they perceive that only through demonstration having sex . That's why I decided to take sex as quickly as possible. After three weeks I have not yet healed joints, and it did not work, and after six turned out. And I was glad that it is still attractive for the favorite. "

Two month   - 33-year-old Abby Wolfe and her husband John. "I was worried that John would no longer consider me sexy, after what he had seen at birth, which lasted 8 hours. But he kept a positive attitude. I did not like that I put on weight and that the abdomen appeared folds. I really wanted to get back to the sex of our lives. Two months later, we decided to just try having sex . Alas, after only seven months after the birth, I was pregnant again, and after the birth of her daughter stopped I like sex. But John knew all about it, we even laughed about it, and were able to overcome all the problems. Now we have two is sex in a month, and that it is sufficient. "

Five months - 37-year-old Anar Eshvud and her former partner, with whom they had already left. "I gave birth at home without painkillers, it was a wonderful experience. But the least in this case, I think about sex after childbirth. In five months we've tried. I was euphoric about motherhood, about sex, I do not think so. But it turned out even better, than before the birth. Then I'm too focused on the child, and after the birth of the second general went into motherhood. Partner bored, but sex I was not interested. We broke up. Now I have a new man, but sex still is not as big part of my life as before. "

Year of   - 23-year-old Satar Taran and her 30-year-old partner. "We no longer have sex as soon as I learned of the pregnancy. I was afraid that it will hurt the baby. When the daughter born I did and forgot to think about sex. Caring for her daughter took up all my time. I once weariness fell asleep, and the child fell to the ground. And although the daughter did not suffer, I started strong postpartum depression. What's the sex, if I was disgusted when the partner even before the chest touching? He soon moved, but a few months back. We wanted to start all over again, and we succeeded. After nearly two years without sex we have, finally, sex life is back to normal. "

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