White dress, black coat, a march by Mendelssohn, a vow of eternal fidelity ... Find at least one pair of which is not to despise betrayal. But time passes - and husbands are beginning to glance in the direction of others slender legs, and his wife - to look into the crowd of a new prince.
Sex on the side - a destructive evil
Analyzing things on atresolyah, Igor's wife found out where his old briefcase, and in it - a birth certificate six months ago. According to the document, Igor grew up the son, whose existence was a woman, of course, no idea.
At first she was shocked, and then pain. In the evening, Igor, hiding Guilty eyes, told him how it was. A colleague asked me to lead it after a corporate party, saying that a scary walk through the dark streets. He could not refuse. As it happened, and he did not understand. Casual sex . Alcohol has done his work, and co-worker tried it with him before flirting. Of course, he thought, than everything will turn out - who in these moments you think? But when the girl said that he would not have an abortion, did not shy away from responsibility ...
Since that day, family life turned into a nightmare. If the wife did not cry, then I looked at Igor's eyes full of suffering. He toiled, not knowing how to make amends, while the wife has become isolated in their grief. They stopped sleeping together, their communication has been reduced to a minimum set of impersonal words. When Igor turned up the opportunity to get a second job, he gladly jumped at it: firstly psychological pressure at home was unbearable, and secondly, he now had to take care of even an illegitimate child. Mom kid terrorized man in every way: it is constantly demanded money, called when she pleases, hysterics. Once Igor saw her, venting evil in the baby, began to beat him. After that Igor really got exhausted: he always imagined that at his son being bullied, and he could not help ...
Adultery can be a boon?
A few years ago in the life of Roman I had a pretty hard time. He got into trouble the financial history and almost lost his money. Probably, it is not difficult to imagine that such things can happen in a family of men, where there are two children? Home atmosphere was tense to the limit: from Roman to his wife and then passed the nerves, they quarrel grew like a snowball, and the marriage was practically on the verge of collapse.
Surviving tough times Roman, in his deep conviction that helped him then appeared mistress. She patiently listened to all his complaints, and returned home to a man at peace. Tension in the relationship with his wife is gradually eroding, and again went up the hill of the case, they had money. With the woman, with his mistress, Roman has long been separated, taking care to keep it a secret from his wife. It is nothing to regret. Casual sex - it is not a sin
According to sociologists, a lot of people these days believe that monogamy - is more ideal, and the fact of marriage does not remove the drives to the other partners. Yes, and what some call "treason", others do not consider such.
... 27-year-old Alex, two months after the wedding went to the reunion to his hometown. There he very sincerely communicate with their school friends, and one of the classmates - not only. Tell Alex that he cheated on his wife, the young man would be genuinely surprised. According to him, since there was no penetration, then it means that there was no sex. Likewise, he does not consider himself a traitor and a 32-year-old Andrew, who "talked" a woman of easy virtue to a bachelor party of his friend. "Yes, what are you? What sex on the side ? - She's just doing his job! "
Virtual cheating
The phenomenon of our time - virtual treason . About that, "it considered to be" it or not, you can bet up to beksonechnosti. Experts said its say: virtual adultery fraught with big problems in real life.
... Once Irina noticed that my husband forgot to close the page on a computer with your e-mail. Women's curiosity overcame: hesitation, Ira's wife looked into the drawer, and found there a letter from some of Cassandra. It was not accidental: the husband, apparently, have long corresponded with the owner of an intriguing name. Message of the stranger were unambiguous: "Bite me, chew me, eat me, I - your ..." But Ira did not hurt it. And the fact that in her letters to Cassandra husband called her "cute", but in the end added: "I kiss tenderly!" ...
My husband tried to explain to his wife that letter on the Internet - this is nonsense, nothing. Irina said that then everything he wrote to her before the wedding, too, is nonsense. It is terribly hurt. And although over time the family storm calmed down, from the former heat in the house was gone. For a man the most painful is not even the fact of treason and its consequences. Loss of confidence, the aggrieved party turns into a paranoid: signs of infidelity see caricatures everywhere, no matter what assurances.
Business for infidelity
When one alter another, others make money on it. And you can argue as much as necessary on the immorality of such a business, but an alibi agency quite a flourish. Their organizers even believe that benefit society. Properly disguised lies, they say, protects from psychological trauma and helps to keep family and work.
The most common and inexpensive service alibi agencies are bogus phone numbers . The scheme is simple: leaving the house, liar swears that he went to the gym or at a business meeting . For credibility he leaves the family of coordinates in case it will look for . When you call the number indicated answered by an agent, who confirmed that this phone actually belongs to the organization previously agreed, and sought people just came for a second, but it is possible to leave a message . The operator will contact the customer to quickly and said, he tried to "break through" . There's also an instant conference call, creating the illusion of presence in the declared place . The complete package includes a cover for an extended range of services: by mail or courier will come an invitation to the event, and tickets (if "go" would have in another city), bring the courier, and travel documents, as a rule, authentic and are paid separately . This "legend" will allow to justify the absences of up to several days . Masculine and feminine
Breach of faith It is perceived differently by men and women. Most unfaithful husbands said their marriage is quite successful, while most unfaithful wives consider it unfortunate. Most men look for in a adultery sexual adventure they crave the fresh feeling of a new body - all that could be re-initiate their blood. Most women are looking for a sense of adultery and friendship: first they tend to become attached emotionally, not physically.
Married men have extramarital affairs, usually numerous but brief - only for sex. But a woman can not only change the body and therefore can not understand the behavior of men. He does not believe that he really does not remember the girl's name, with which slept last month after drinking a bottle of wine. He remembers the brand of wine that is drunk, but whether it was Tanya, Masha and Olga - remembers. The woman remembers the name of her lover, even after fifteen years.
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