Some parents seriously believe that their child is not interested in the topic of sex is found American sociologists. Meanwhile, the peer of his daughters and sons of these parents feel quite mature.
"Parents with whom I spoke could hardly talk about their children, as subjects who experience sexual desire, - said study author Professor Sinikka Elliott from North Carolina State University. - At the same time, other teens that age were peers their children were considered those moms and dads as quite savvy about sex, and even sexually aggressive. "
According to Professor Elliott, most parents still live in the power of good old stereotypes. So the boys 'parents are afraid that their children will fall victim to dishonest sexually girls, and the girls' parents believe that some guys to seduce their daughters.
"By using sexual stereotypes to free children from liability for sexual activity, the parents thus only reinforce these stereotypes - says Elliott. - This tactic provokes children to pressure, coercion and even provoking in the intimate life. And here's another curious paradox. Almost all parents want their children to participate in a heterosexual relationship. But their behavior, words, images, they are doing everything to ensure that these relations look most unattractive. The girls are afraid that meet dishonest boys who disgrace them for life, and the boys are afraid cold temptresses, who then will be able to force myself to marry or just blackmail. This prospect seems daunting for many teens. "
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