Adultery: explanation of husbands and wives

US researchers conducted a large-scale study of infidelity in couples. It was attended by 506 men and 412 women who were in monogamous sexual relationships lasting from 3 months to 43 years. Researchers looked at how various reasons, infidelity pushes to both sexes.

"About two years a stable relationship comes sexual boredom, when the partners are already fairly well understood each other, do not expect anything unusual," - report to the experts.

  Dissatisfaction with the quality of the relationship is the cause of most of the changes made by women. At the same time, - if the woman's discontent cause personal characteristics partner - it increases the likelihood of infidelity twice. If the root of discontent doubt hides woman that she sexually compatible with your man, triples the risk of infidelity.

Another reason for the adultery   on the part of women is their desire for self-affirmation. According to the motives of those most often guided by the fairer sex, which are largely dependent on their men, for example, material. And if these women get to solve the financial problems on their own, they often leave their husbands and eat all the charm of a free life (usually with a new partner). And if you can not leave, you increase your self-esteem by lovers.

In men, the psychological motivation adultery Which is so characteristic manifests itself in the case of women - is not valid. Most men - apostate consider their family life is quite safe, and the connection side needed as vivid sexual adventure doping. Scientists estimate that more likely to change just those by men who can not live without the risk and thrill, and easily excited by a variety of sexual stimuli. To satisfy these men just sex in a committed relationship, it should be as diverse as the risky situation they have a stimulating effect. But the most surprising, that among the champions of change the number as men who are not confident in their sexual abilities. Suspiciousness suspicion of impotence or suffering from premature ejaculation increase (each a) the risk of male infidelity by 6%.

Finally, a promiscuous man could push the difficult economic situation and the personal financial crisis. Scientists believe that such a reaction is quite logical. The man instinctively seeks to reproduce in a critical situation and it is prone to actions that increase his chances to perpetuate their genes.

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