Sex after childbirth: when to start?

British journalists have decided to interview some young mothers to find out how long they have been waiting for the first sex after childbirth. This figure turned out to be different - from six weeks to a year.

Six weeks   - 27-year-old Amy Dorrington lives with his partner, Ben, and 10-meyachnym son. "Why I decided to take sex so early? - Says Amy. - I know that Ben did not change me, but why take the risk? Men need to show affection and love, because they perceive that only through demonstration having sex . That's why I decided to take sex as quickly as possible. After three weeks I have not yet healed joints, and it did not work, and after six turned out. And I was glad that it is still attractive for the favorite. "

Two month   - 33-year-old Abby Wolfe and her husband John. "I was worried that John would no longer consider me sexy, after what he had seen at birth, which lasted 8 hours. But he kept a positive attitude. I did not like that I put on weight and that the abdomen appeared folds. I really wanted to get back to the sex of our lives. Two months later, we decided to just try having sex . Alas, after only seven months after the birth, I was pregnant again, and after the birth of her daughter stopped I like sex. But John knew all about it, we even laughed about it, and were able to overcome all the problems. Now we have two is sex in a month, and that it is sufficient. "

Five months - 37-year-old Anar Eshvud and her former partner, with whom they had already left. "I gave birth at home without painkillers, it was a wonderful experience. But the least in this case, I think about sex after childbirth. In five months we've tried. I was euphoric about motherhood, about sex, I do not think so. But it turned out even better, than before the birth. Then I'm too focused on the child, and after the birth of the second general went into motherhood. Partner bored, but sex I was not interested. We broke up. Now I have a new man, but sex still is not as big part of my life as before. "

Year of   - 23-year-old Satar Taran and her 30-year-old partner. "We no longer have sex as soon as I learned of the pregnancy. I was afraid that it will hurt the baby. When the daughter born I did and forgot to think about sex. Caring for her daughter took up all my time. I once weariness fell asleep, and the child fell to the ground. And although the daughter did not suffer, I started strong postpartum depression. What's the sex, if I was disgusted when the partner even before the chest touching? He soon moved, but a few months back. We wanted to start all over again, and we succeeded. After nearly two years without sex we have, finally, sex life is back to normal. "

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Workaholics make women happy

Do you dream of happiness in his personal life? Pay attention to the men - workaholics!

This conclusion was American scientists. In their view, the desire to be the best tolerated and at work in love life.   Such men strive to achieve excellence in all areas.

To prove his version of the American researchers have organized and conducted a large-scale survey of residents of the United States. It was attended by several thousand women. They candidly told the experts about their opinions about men and their success in intimate life. The fair sex have declared that the best lovers - it workaholics.   This opinion was shared by more than half of the women interviewed.

Ladies explain their view is very simple. In their view, men- workaholics active, experienced and considerate in bed compared with the others. They try to make their partner was as good as his own.

Psychologists have tried to explain this trend. They think it's all about - in a complex perfectionist ("Excellent"). Workaholics often suffer complex honors and trying to do everything perfectly, both in work and in intimate life. But psychologists anxiously watching these people. After all, the desire to be first everywhere and seek perfection often leads to big problems with the psyche.

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The first step in making a woman have sex

It is believed that in the intimate sphere men should show their leadership qualities, but in reality it is no longer coincides with the wishes of men. Experts urge women to reconsider their role in the relationship.

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According to a study conducted by researchers from the University of California in San Francisco, has 72% (!) Of men complain transferred to them by default as a leader in sex life . They would like to see is a woman "started first." Meanwhile, only 25% of girls aged 18 to 24 are the instigators in the intimate sphere, that is, only one in four is ready to take the first step.

This is despite the fact that the vast majority of women who participated in the survey feel confident enough to show the initiative. But once and for all established the company as forcing them to wait, when men still show leadership qualities. Paradoxically, more than half of women do not see anything pleasant to wait for initiatives from a partner. But they are still waiting, though a significant number of men do not mind to obey a woman.

That is, men and women are ready to change roles, but somehow do not. A recent UK study showed that already 40% of the partners describe their sex life   a year after its inception as "satisfactory". That is one year relationship enough to stop receiving the pleasure of sex. And 'boring in bed "with a pre-distributed roles and prewritten scripts sex plays a major role.

Why women give up the role of instigators in sex? Largely because of the fear seem "indecent" and "depraved" in the eyes of a loved one. If a girl, she chooses to meet with a guy on the street, most likely to scare him this determination, what can we say about the lead in sex? (READ MORE)

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5 gold health products for every day

The most simple and the products are often the most useful. Their use will save you from many health problems .

In order to maintain health, not necessarily every day to eat caviar spoons and eating her lobster. A balanced diet, in fact, is not the most expensive and exotic products, but rather the opposite - food that is readily available to any man in the street and sold in convenience stores. All of these "pets" of the body have different properties, and in combination with each other to form a complex essential for maintaining health.

So, every day you must have:

1.Orehi. Any - walnuts, almonds, hazelnuts or peanuts. Eat a handful of them around every day and thus provides your body needs for heart unsaturated fats, protein and antioxidants.

2.Fasol. Though boiled in its own juice, though in tomato sauce, though a Georgian lobio. This "shy" contains a high amount of potassium necessary for the good work of the heart and other vital organs, tissue - for the better functioning of the gastrointestinal tract. And it is very low in calories and high in antioxidants.

3.Shpinat and leafy salads. Do not delay the use of these products for the summer. That is a huge amount of vitamins and valuable minerals contained in them, your body needs all year round!

4.Naturalny yogurt. It is a "living" and not the sweet dessert, which can be stored for several months. Shelf life of this, useful yogurt - less than 2 weeks. That it contains bifidus cultures that support the natural microflora in the body and improves its resistance to various diseases. And yet, it is in the presence of beneficial bacteria all the vitamins and minerals that have been reported with other products, are absorbed more effectively.

5.Tselnozernovoy bread and cereals. First, the simple carbohydrates energizes you for the day, and secondly - they have a lot of protein, which is necessary for cell structure, and thirdly - they are just a storehouse of natural fiber, which cleanses the body of toxins.

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Why are women more often depression, while men show aggression?

Why are women more often depression, while men show aggression?
It turns out strong and weaker sex suffers from various mental illnesses

Many experts the first year indicate that the medicine is necessary to implement the "gender" approach. Anyway in psychiatry. After all, the strong and the weaker sex is dominated by different hormones, which largely depends on the state of our mental, and emotional manifestations are different.

Now researchers from the University of Minnesota have confirmed that the difference between men and women is obvious when it comes to mental disorders, writes The Times of India. They analyzed where to start and how to proceed for several years, various mental disorders in more than 43 million Americans.

In women, according to the observations of scientists, most were specified in the history of anxiety or depression, depression, and men - anti-social behavior and the problems associated with addiction (alcoholism, gambling, drug addiction).

If a mentally healthy women often prefer to dump stress using sobbing and beating of dishes, the patient suffering from anxiety, by contrast, tend to keep emotions in themselves. And this, of course, facing loneliness, depression and alienation. And even cry (tears, and even considered a form of emotional relief) prefer face to face with a pillow. And, as they say a great "mymra" in "office romances" cry alone, it is the same, what to drink alone.

Men who suffer from mental illness, on the contrary, often translated his emotions on others. Hence - aggressiveness, impulsivity, inappropriate behavior in public places.

From their work the experts concluded: women doing the treatment, it is necessary to focus on the cognitive abilities and skills to endure hardships, to prevent the development of clinical depression or anxiety.

Men should also put into practice the therapy, based on a compensation for the fulfillment of the previously planned actions, or aggressive impulses translated into positive ones.

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Are you getting an orgasm, is seen on the lips

What is the shape of the lips can say about your sex life? Researchers from the UK have found a link between the bending lip and the female orgasm.

You "ploskogubaya" smile of Julia Roberts or the charming curves of the lips, like Sophie Dahl? Scientists from the University of the West of Scotland found that women with well-defined curve of the upper lip, which is sometimes referred to as a bend of Cupid, 12 (!) Times more likely to reach their own orgasm during sex . So Sophie Dahl obviously lucky.

For their study, British scientists attracted 258 women aged 18 to 35 years. All of them were asked to describe the shape of your lips and talk frankly about sex life . 95% of women with typical bending lip , Said that every time capable during sexual intercourse to achieve orgasm without the help of a partner. Those whose bending lip   was less delineated, the figure was only 60%.

But the owners of "flat" lips should not be upset about it. As shown by the same research, the shape of the lips does not affect a woman's ability to achieve orgasm during sex   or in any other way. "If you are able to independently reach orgasm during sex, then it is good - says sex therapist Paula Hall. - But it's really important for sex life So that trust, openness and communication. Unfortunately, scientists have not been able to explain exactly how bending lip   affects Female Orgasms . Of course, we can assume that because of the small number of participants in the study, its findings are questionable. But 92% - still a very impressive figure.

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Sexiest age for women

Female sexuality blossoms after thirty. To such conclusion experts of several European universities and research centers.

In a poll on the topic female sexuality   attended by 1,000 women and their answers later studied and analyzed by qualified psychologists and sexologists. Researchers primarily interested in what period of his life the fairer sex feel more attractive and sexually liberated. In addition, study participants answered questions related to the frequency sex life   and its quality: experts were asked to name the exact number of sexual contacts and to talk about their feelings during sex.

The result was that, after 30 years sex life women become less intense, but more sensual. For example, women 30-35 years on average have sex half as likely than women 20-25 years of age. At the same time, the number with sexual intercourse more reduced - women aged 45 to 55 years old have sex no more than 4-5 times a month. For comparison: in the 20-25 years of sexual contacts 10-12 on average per month.

However, becoming less active sex begins to deliver a lot more fun for women, feelings become more complex and profound, and orgasm - a bright and strong. Half of the respondents surveyed said that after the age of thirty, they began to receive from sex a lot more joy than in the days when they were young girls.

What is significant: it is over the age of 30, most ladies are ready to start an affair, or even to meet with several partners. This step is necessary to age and the peak of female sexuality. As researchers found the most sexy age for the fairer sex can be considered as 34 years.

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