Why women give up sex?

The sad statistics released by sociologists. More than 52% of women avoid sexual contact with their partners, because they consider themselves to be too fat.

More than half of women suffer from an inferiority complex. They doubt their own attractiveness due overweight And this is reflected in their personal lives - women avoid sex   with husbands and lovers. Even more the ladies blamed fatigue that they disappear any desire to have sex.

These data were obtained from a survey of 4000 people in the study Sex In The Nation ("Sex in the country"), commissioned by the makers of the pills Fembido, which supposedly increases the female libido. Fembido intended by the founders of a female version of Viagra, but many experts have said that while science can not offer a viable alternative to the "male pill" for women.

However, the survey 29% of women said that their appearance and excess weight It is sufficient reason for refusing to have sex. Another 23% of women schitiayut that their sex life is suffering because of their "running" of the figures. Curiously, the number of men who consider their excess weight reason for not sex   or shame, is only 8%.

But the biggest killer of passion is fatigue. 72% of women because of her regular refuse sexual relations. In the reasons for this is also a sense of unattractiveness (34%), malaise (33%) and stress (32%). 13% of the fair sex agree to have sex only with darkness - that partners were not able to see them unclothed body.

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Sexual fantasies of husband and wife - a big difference

Scientists from the University of Granada have found the dream of men and women in heterosexual relationships. As it turned out, women's sexual fantasies in recent years have become more sophisticated. But even the wildest dreams that occur in the female head, do not go to any comparison with the fact of what men think.

In the experiment, the researchers took part in the Spanish 2250 volunteers aged 18 to 73 years. All of them to the top of the project were in a heterosexual relationship for at least six months. The survey showed that a pleasant sexual fantasies   indulge in almost all people - almost 100% of respondents admitted that. But while 80% of both sexes, and fantasies excite yourself unpleasant scenarios. For example, women are unpleasant thoughts about erotic games with dominance submission. At the same time, every woman at least once in their lives fantasizing about "forced unprotected sex." Men, too, to imagine a sex, but much less frequently. The most common male fantasy of the "unpleasant" sex - is a representation of its participation in a homosexual relationship.

Overall, the study showed that men generally indulge in erotic thoughts (as pleasant and unpleasant) much more often than women. At the fairer sex such dreams occur about once a month. In addition, for women's fantasies are characterized mainly romantic notes. In men, the erotic fantasy typically include an experiment - for example, in my mind they exchange partners with other couples, or even take part in the unbridled orgies.

However, according to study leader Dr. Nieves Moyano Muñoz, "in both sexes of this kind of fantasy appear not very often - once or twice in a lifetime."

In their study, the researchers tried to understand, do not harm any unpleasant sexual fantasies   development of healthy sexual behavior. The enhancement of sexual desire and excitement thought about sex, of course, useful. However, researchers believe that psychologists need to ask their patients not only about whether they fantasize about sex, but also that they represent, writes The Daily Telegraph.

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Killer Passion: White bread lowers libido

Tonic, white bread, pain - all this reduces libido. Experts told about the "passion killers", the role of which we do not even suspect.

Several million men and women in Russia suffer from decreased libido . At least, so say the pharmaceutical companies that regularly bring to the market new drugs to combat sexual problems. Only the sale of Viagra are estimated at hundreds of millions of dollars.

However, most of us have no idea about the real "passion killers" that surround us. We encounter them regularly, without knowing their impact on libido. And maybe, if we can limit some of his habits or mode of life, no pills to enhance sexual desire   we do not need. Here's what to avoid in the first place:

White bread   - Carbohydrates reduce sexual desire. These products contain a lot of sugar, and it not only makes us fat, but also deprives the necessary energy. Without this energy is difficult to force myself to make love.

Funds from colds and flu   - Doctors have long known that these drugs pose a serious threat to the libido. Medicaments containing diphenhydramine and pseudoephedrine, not only adversely affect the libido But also can cause erectile dysfunction .

Tablets of blood pressure   - Also a cause decreased libido . The most dangerous drugs from the group of diuretics and beta-blockers such as propranolol and atenolol. But but a beta-blocker Nebivolol improves erectile function by 69%. However, without consulting a doctor on any prescription drugs can not refuse.

Baldness   - Harmful even much hair loss as Propecia reception (finasteride). This medication is recommended to combat male Alopecia areata. Professor, University of Washington Michael Irvig found that 94% of men taking finasteride marked decrease in libido in 92% erectile dysfunction And 69% of the problems with achieving orgasm.

Painkillers   - Drugs such as codeine or morphine inhibit the activity of the hypothalamus region of the brain that controls hormone levels. This, in turn, leads to the release of hormones from the pituitary gland, which suppresses libido .

Among other "passion killers" experts include drastic weight loss, diabetes, too hearty lunches and dinners, women's contraceptives, antidepressants, tonic, and a venerable age.

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Shock "vaginal knitter" defies morality

Australian Casey Jenkins journalists called "vaginal knitters", in which the determination is no exaggeration. The woman knits a sweater from the threads that are in the most intimate parts of her body.

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Every day, the artist and master Performance Casey Jenkins pushes himself into the vagina skein of wool yarn, which then touches on the needles to start a knit sweater. From clothes to knitters only the nedovyazanny sweater and T-shirt. Casey is going to undertake this process of 28 days, making no breaks even at menstruation. Currently, it is already half-way to completion of the experiment.

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34-year-old artists taking part in the Performance   titled Casting Off My Womb ("Knitting from the uterus"). With these actions it expresses its protest against the established norms of morality in society, which adversely affects the psyche. And in particular, against the fact that the female genital organs taken shamefully hide, so much so that they begin to be ashamed of, even by women themselves.

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"If you carefully look at the vulva, you will find that it is absolutely the same part of the body, like everything else - says Casey. - There's nothing scary or shocking. There is nothing that can out jump and devour you. Inner peace and quiet for me is to fully accept your body, it is not ashamed of it, and to love. "

Performance is carried out in one of the galleries in Australia. Although women come every day to thrust himself into the body of foreign objects, Casey says that she does not feel any pain. "It is unusual and somewhat constrains me, because I can not get up and walk when I have inside wool, - she said. - Yes, there is a limit, but no pain. And in general, people there live children is taken out, so it's fairly strong body. " (READ MORE)

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Sex with a fat man is dangerous to life

On the eve of the New Year in the American TV series will be released the first documentary serial movie "Sex and sent me to the hospital." For example, the true story of the spectators transmit know what can turn them love the proximity of the person to whom it's time to lose weight.

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Heroes TV show became a pilot issue of 30-year-old Jen Gerakaris and 29-year-old Gregg Kazarona that eight years ago weighed 200 kg. In 2005, the young people met - Jen is absolutely not embarrassed by her boyfriend parameters, and the lovers were together day and night.

During one of the nights joint terrible happened. Making love on a concrete floor, Gregg nearly killed his girlfriend. In a fit of passion, he fell on her entire body, leaving Jen strongly hit her head.

"I called the" soon ", and he sat there and thought," Did I kill her? ". It was awful, "- recalled a man, obese

. Fortunately, sex with fat   boyfriend is not over for Gerakaris fatal. Doctors diagnosed her a mild concussion.

The fact of the topic:
According to the expert, the Chicago doctor Jordan Moskoffa with injuries sustained during sex, he is addressed weekly. The most common complaint among men associated with the use of ring-nozzles for penis, and in both sexes - objects stuck in their rectum. (READ MORE)

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Sexual activity may cause cancer

Not the best of varied sex life in men increases the risk of developing prostate cancer. This was stated by experts at Nottingham University, completed a study involving more than 800 men.

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According to the head of research of Dr. Polyxena Dimitropulu, sex hormones in some men may be responsible not only for a stronger sex drive in his youth, but also for the development of prostate cancer later in life. A group of researchers led by Dr. Dimitropulu watched lifestyles of 400 men with prostate cancer and 409 healthy men. Attention has been sharpened on parameters such as sexual activity, number of sexual partners, and the cases transferred genital infections. Analysis of the data showed a correlation between loving and prone to prostate cancer.

Scientists had found a difference between the two groups in how often men have resorted to sex. It was found that men with cancer of the prostate, often have sex or masturbate. 40% of the group with cancer is made more than 20 times a month or more, while in the group of healthy men was 32%. Also among men suffering from prostate cancer, two-fifths in the past have had six or more partners. In the group of healthy men only one third of those counted.

At the same time, scientists say that the link between sexual activity and prostate cancer decreases with age. Why is this happening, experts can not yet explain. The researchers say their work gives reason to believe that hormone therapy can be very effective in the fight against prostate cancer. "Hormones appear to play a key role in the development of prostate cancer and, therefore, as a therapy may decrease hormone levels, which is supposed to stimulate the growth of cancer cells," - he expressed his opinion of Dr. Dimitropulu. (READ MORE)

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Men in Russia are less likely to want sex

Health Minister shared the results of the survey, which showed a very disturbing trend: Russian interest in a stable sexual relationship goes. Nine out of ten of our fellow citizens have those or other problems associated with a regular sexual life. And one in three men it is virtually absent.

"Out of 1225 people surveyed in 1101 said at these or other symptoms of erectile dysfunction. It is 70% "- confirms the disappointing data assistant professor of Moscow State University of Medicine and Dentistry Alexander Bernikov.

  But the paradox is that, for all the obvious problems that characterize it as a decline of sexuality is almost impossible. In Russia, such studies have not been conducted previously, and thus compare the results with nothing. At the same time, experts are concerned about the situation clearly, is not considering it the norm.

"We grew up in the State in which sex was not, and now the data from our study show that it is still not - says Bernikov. If 70% of men - health, which did not impose any complaints and did not intend to go to the urologist, noted in his persistent unwillingness to have sex - this is an obvious problem! "

Anxiety Russian experts shared their American counterparts. According to experts of the ocean, the fact that people no longer have sex can really be regarded as a trend. Modern Americans are so harassed everyday worries that the forces on the sexual relationship   simply does not remain.

According to statistics, now every fifth American couple has sex less than 10 times a year. The dynamics of decrease greater interest in sex for men whose sexuality inhibit permanent emotional and physical stress at work. Women, in turn, sexual harmony has fallen to the bottom of the top ten in the list of vital priorities - first place went career success.

EXPERT ADVICE

"The main thing for a man - a regular sex life to avoid the excesses associated with long pauses. This may be once a week or once every two days - is not important. Schematic regularity. And to avoid casual sex! "- Alexander recommends Bernikov.

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Unprotected sex vacation plans every tenth woman

The study showed that women had an average 11 times going unprotected sexual contact and at least four different partners. The holiday season - the most common time for a similar risk.

British sociologists decided to explore the sex lives of girls under the age of 30 years, goes on vacation. It turned out that as the long-awaited vacation, these women are changing their views on privacy and become much more relaxed. For example, 10% plan to do unprotected sex   either absolutely stranger or with someone they met on vacation.

More than 40% of girls who are not in a relationship tend to make love without a condom abroad, and 13% of women over 30 do not plan to use any means of contraception during the summer vacation. All of this then leads to a sharp influx of patients into the offices venereologists and dermatologists.

"The fact that a significant number of women practicing unprotected sex , Cause for serious concern, - says the founder of the portal DrFox.co.uk, which took the survey, Dr. Tony Steele. - But even more alarming to me personally inspires the fact that women do not just practice unsafe sex, but advance planning to participate. The people you meet during the holidays, it is one hundred percent strangers, about which you know absolutely nothing. And to engage in unprotected sex with them, so many times to increase the risk of infection as an STD or HIV. "

Psychologically, the desire to practice this kind of sex is associated with a thrust women to adventures and adventure. Men traditionally considered sexual intercourse without a condom more enjoyable from a physiological point of view.

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Adultery: against the rules

White dress, black coat, a march by Mendelssohn, a vow of eternal fidelity ... Find at least one pair of which is not to despise betrayal. But time passes - and husbands are beginning to glance in the direction of others slender legs, and his wife - to look into the crowd of a new prince.

Sex on the side - a destructive evil

Analyzing things on atresolyah, Igor's wife found out where his old briefcase, and in it - a birth certificate six months ago. According to the document, Igor grew up the son, whose existence was a woman, of course, no idea.
At first she was shocked, and then pain. In the evening, Igor, hiding Guilty eyes, told him how it was. A colleague asked me to lead it after a corporate party, saying that a scary walk through the dark streets. He could not refuse. As it happened, and he did not understand. Casual sex . Alcohol has done his work, and co-worker tried it with him before flirting. Of course, he thought, than everything will turn out - who in these moments you think? But when the girl said that he would not have an abortion, did not shy away from responsibility ...

Since that day, family life turned into a nightmare. If the wife did not cry, then I looked at Igor's eyes full of suffering. He toiled, not knowing how to make amends, while the wife has become isolated in their grief. They stopped sleeping together, their communication has been reduced to a minimum set of impersonal words. When Igor turned up the opportunity to get a second job, he gladly jumped at it: firstly psychological pressure at home was unbearable, and secondly, he now had to take care of even an illegitimate child. Mom kid terrorized man in every way: it is constantly demanded money, called when she pleases, hysterics. Once Igor saw her, venting evil in the baby, began to beat him. After that Igor really got exhausted: he always imagined that at his son being bullied, and he could not help ...

Adultery can be a boon?

A few years ago in the life of Roman I had a pretty hard time. He got into trouble the financial history and almost lost his money. Probably, it is not difficult to imagine that such things can happen in a family of men, where there are two children? Home atmosphere was tense to the limit: from Roman to his wife and then passed the nerves, they quarrel grew like a snowball, and the marriage was practically on the verge of collapse.

Surviving tough times Roman, in his deep conviction that helped him then appeared mistress. She patiently listened to all his complaints, and returned home to a man at peace. Tension in the relationship with his wife is gradually eroding, and again went up the hill of the case, they had money. With the woman, with his mistress, Roman has long been separated, taking care to keep it a secret from his wife. It is nothing to regret.

Casual sex - it is not a sin

According to sociologists, a lot of people these days believe that monogamy - is more ideal, and the fact of marriage does not remove the drives to the other partners. Yes, and what some call "treason", others do not consider such.

... 27-year-old Alex, two months after the wedding went to the reunion to his hometown. There he very sincerely communicate with their school friends, and one of the classmates - not only. Tell Alex that he cheated on his wife, the young man would be genuinely surprised. According to him, since there was no penetration, then it means that there was no sex. Likewise, he does not consider himself a traitor and a 32-year-old Andrew, who "talked" a woman of easy virtue to a bachelor party of his friend. "Yes, what are you? What sex on the side ? - She's just doing his job! "

Virtual cheating

The phenomenon of our time - virtual treason . About that, "it considered to be" it or not, you can bet up to beksonechnosti. Experts said its say: virtual adultery fraught with big problems in real life.

... Once Irina noticed that my husband forgot to close the page on a computer with your e-mail. Women's curiosity overcame: hesitation, Ira's wife looked into the drawer, and found there a letter from some of Cassandra. It was not accidental: the husband, apparently, have long corresponded with the owner of an intriguing name. Message of the stranger were unambiguous: "Bite me, chew me, eat me, I - your ..." But Ira did not hurt it. And the fact that in her letters to Cassandra husband called her "cute", but in the end added: "I kiss tenderly!" ...

My husband tried to explain to his wife that letter on the Internet - this is nonsense, nothing. Irina said that then everything he wrote to her before the wedding, too, is nonsense. It is terribly hurt. And although over time the family storm calmed down, from the former heat in the house was gone. For a man the most painful is not even the fact of treason and its consequences. Loss of confidence, the aggrieved party turns into a paranoid: signs of infidelity see caricatures everywhere, no matter what assurances.

Business for infidelity

When one alter another, others make money on it. And you can argue as much as necessary on the immorality of such a business, but an alibi agency quite a flourish. Their organizers even believe that benefit society. Properly disguised lies, they say, protects from psychological trauma and helps to keep family and work.

The most common and inexpensive service alibi agencies are bogus phone numbers .  The scheme is simple: leaving the house, liar swears that he went to the gym or at a business meeting .  For credibility he leaves the family of coordinates in case it will look for .  When you call the number indicated answered by an agent, who confirmed that this phone actually belongs to the organization previously agreed, and sought people just came for a second, but it is possible to leave a message .  The operator will contact the customer to quickly and said, he tried to "break through" .  There's also an instant conference call, creating the illusion of presence in the declared place .  The complete package includes a cover for an extended range of services: by mail or courier will come an invitation to the event, and tickets (if "go" would have in another city), bring the courier, and travel documents, as a rule, authentic and are paid separately .  This "legend" will allow to justify the absences of up to several days . 

Masculine and feminine

Breach of faith It is perceived differently by men and women. Most unfaithful husbands said their marriage is quite successful, while most unfaithful wives consider it unfortunate. Most men look for in a   adultery   sexual adventure they crave the fresh feeling of a new body - all that could be re-initiate their blood. Most women are looking for a sense of adultery and friendship: first they tend to become attached emotionally, not physically.

Married men have extramarital affairs, usually numerous but brief - only for sex. But a woman can not only change the body and therefore can not understand the behavior of men. He does not believe that he really does not remember the girl's name, with which slept last month after drinking a bottle of wine. He remembers the brand of wine that is drunk, but whether it was Tanya, Masha and Olga - remembers. The woman remembers the name of her lover, even after fifteen years.

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This traumatic sex

Love - is the battlefield on which the possible head injuries, broken bones and trauma reproductive organs. Mistaken are those who belong to the classes safe sex. What is most often encountered in love, and how to avoid these problems?

Overwhelming majority sexual trauma   do not require a visit to the doctor, but the surgeons and physicians full of patients who appeared to him right from the bedroom. And it is not about that famous collection of light bulbs, otkryvashek, bottles of deodorant and other amazing items, which experts Research Institute. Sklifosovsky removed each day from the anus and vagina of some of his patients. There are also a lot less exotic sexual trauma .

But enough theory - move on to the practice. Here are the most popular sexual trauma Reported by doctors. In the first place, of course, a variety of stretching the muscles, which results in too much passion and a variety of partners bizarre poses. Bad choice position also causes many back and neck injuries. Relate advice from the "Kama Sutra" with its own physical abilities, and you'll be fine.

Microtrauma, and even bleeding vagina happen when sex goes too hard - hard frictions with insufficient lubrication. In such circumstances, can also suffer penis. Medical advice is obvious - more grease! If you prefer to rough sex, what then do not complain that everything turned out so rudely.

Fractures of the penis   - Also very common injury, especially because the penis can break very easily. Of course, there is no bone in the penis, there are torn erectile tissues filled with blood. The pain is simply hell - much stronger than the dislocation of the penis. Fracture of the penis   often provoke woman during a top position, which comes to mind to make any sudden movement "in the wrong direction." This injury requires surgery. Avoid it will help care partners.

Women, too, are cause for suffering. One of the most common - the lost condom. It will help the realistic choice of the size of gum. Be careful to use the necessary and popular sex toys such as vibrators or artificial penis.

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Erotic dreams: what would it mean?

Erotic dreams - a very special area of ​​human dreams. Science says that about 10% of all the dreams that people can "see" over a lifetime, are sexual in nature or character with a hint of sex.

Erotic dreams on grounds of sex

Men are more likely than women think about sex because of the nature of the resulting instinct to do everything possible to continue their kind. This happens in a dream. Numerous studies and questions show that women erotic dreams   dreams about five times a month, while their partner is one of those they know. Meanwhile, both men sex dream often it happens to strangers.

Curiously, women sex dream   to the same extent it can be a romantic, beautiful, "artistic", and quite ordinary, realistic (the sexual act as such). But in men's dreams dominated by passion, sometimes on a par with rudeness.

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Sexual fears: M and M

To achieve sexual harmony dreams of each pair. But the road to the stars, as we know, lies through the thorns. To fully experience the joy of sexual life, partners sometimes have to overcome the fear of sexual intimacy.

Women's fears associated with sex

1.   One of the most common is the fear of "wrong" size of the vagina. Many people think that   vagina woman   should be narrower and narrower, the more fun it will be able to deliver a man. Meanwhile, the fairer sex often worry that "out there" they have too wide.

Try measure the vagina How do gynecologists, and you will see how well-founded fear.

When at rest the vagina consists of two freely pressed against each other fingers (index and ring), this indicates normal, normal size body. If you feel discomfort, and muscle tension, entry is likely very narrow. But if after the introduction of two fingers in the vagina freely enters a third means, vaginal muscles   weakened. Do not panic! In such cases, very good help Intimate gymnastics with exercises to train the muscles in the pelvic area.

By the way, the size of the vagina   is a purely individual anatomical features, not dependent on the growth or weight gain. Only in this case has the meaning - pelvic bone size, which in many cases is determined genetically.

2 . Another one intimate fear   the fairer sex is associated with the number of discharges. Women with increased hormonal allocation   They are very abundant. The result is much reduced frictional force on the penis of the vaginal wall and consequently dull the sensitivity (as in most women and men).

To solve the problem, you can use hormonal correction. Doctors prescribe   hormonal contraceptives Which block the release of estrogen in the blood, whose excessive activity and causes a large amount of grease.

3.   In some cases Low sensitivity   women during sex is due to decreased tone of the muscles of the vagina. Woman with fear thinking that she was frigid and under various pretexts to avoid sex. To sex was a joy,   vaginal muscles   be trained using a set of special exercises of gymnastics -   vumbildinga . But we should remember that the vaginal muscles is the same muscle group, like any other in our body. Her tone is largely dependent on the overall muscle tone of the body. It is therefore necessary to maintain the overall physical activity - jogging, swimming, tennis.

4.   Fear not reach orgasm "terrorizing" many women   during the next . And often this is due to the fact that man seeks directly to intercourse, while his partner is not enough excited. Female excitation mechanism by nature more sluggish than men, and the lack of foreplay brings a woman even pain. In the ancient Chinese and Indian treatises on love written that foreplay   You should be three to four times longer than the sexual act itself. And sexologists recommend that men bring your partner to orgasm   directly in front of the entry, and only then do the actual sexual act.

5.   Some people believe that women love   sex   with the lights off. And rightly so. Some women are very afraid to show partner "in all its glory." Stretch marks, cellulite, excess weight, not too firm breasts - these are common causes of pathological unwillingness to show their naked body. Unfortunately, this fear is often triggered by mass culture, publicly display perfect model body. Women often do not realize that all this beauty - simply the result of good work of stylists, makeup artists, and professionals svetoustanovschikov on Photoshop. And comparing himself with some "Covergirl" begin to be ashamed of their bodies.

What to do in such a case? Psychologists advise to talk with your partner and explain that you are confused. As a rule, quickly found out that the experiences of his own "imperfections" completely far-fetched, and no cellulite you have never noticed the man.

What men fear

That's what the statistics:

- More than 70% of modern men are afraid to be the first woman's sexual partner. More precisely, they are afraid of the responsibility for his role in this situation and unforeseen circumstances, further development options.

- 68% of men are afraid of comparisons with another man. Naturally, not in their favor.

- 46% of men are afraid of force majeure in the bed, which prevented them to satisfy his partner.

- 35% of proposals are afraid to try something new

- The greatest fear of men is sexual fear of pregnancy partner. This was during the poll said 84% of men.

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Love without sex: true stories

Surely in these days it happens - when the love is, and no sex?

In the history of mankind there have been periods when love and sexual relationship   We can not communicate with each other. In the Victorian era romantic-minded person looking for Love without sex   - Too lofty a sense it was considered. Silver Age poets dreamed of a beautiful stranger without them no bodily claims. But we live in a different time, you might say. Sexual relations   in modern culture is not perceived as something indecent or secret, and no one was shocked.

This is true. But the area of ​​human sexuality - far have not read the book. Experts studying her face with a lot of contradictions, complexes and complex combinations. For example, one of the paradoxes - why partners are attracted (often a relative), and seemingly quite prepared for sexual relations And do not bring your communication to a logical climax intimate, or even avoid this moment. What works here - fear, uncertainty, excessive sensitivity, the disease finally?

In sexology there is a belief that sometimes people are suitable to each other as sexual partners, addicted scenario friendship and begin to think that sex will ruin the wonderful relationship that there is between them. And the more they inflated (or one of them) the value of friendship, the more difficult it becomes to perceive them in a different way - for example, sexual. And to keep this friendship, they try to turn their attention to other people. While it may feel attracted to each other.

It contributes to the development of relations without sex   and the Internet. It is virtually limitless possibilities for fantasy - can be given by any person they excellent quality and fall in love with him already in absentia. If a date in reality is less exciting than it appeared, then you can quickly collapse and revert to a computer that does not interfere with play out imagination. In addition, the virtual human relations is much easier to decide on the frankness than in relation to this, that only reinforces the Internet preference. And the role of the perfect lover in the Internet gives a lot easier.

Love without sex: true stories

Marina autumn vacation in Egypt. Almost before the homecoming she met with Dima. The young man was living in St. Petersburg and was remarkably similar to her beloved actor Keanu Reeves. "We spent two most wonderful day of my life, - says Marina. I definitely liked him, Dima and his smile ... I immediately started quickens the pulse!"

When Marina was leaving it in the confusion he did not ask her phone number. And leave itself room to stop her pride.

It's been a few months, but Dima does not leave the girl out of my head. "I can not forget it, I think about us all the time, I see him in a dream. What a fool I was, that did not leave him the phone. I have fans, but I only need it ...."

Psychologists say that very often taken for true love feelings that have no direct relation to it. For example, we can wake up the basic instinct, and we are unconsciously looking for a sexual partner and parent to its possible offspring. In this case, may break out a burning passion and attractive for us, first of all, are the appearance and physical characteristics of man. When interest begins to wane physical, dry out and romantic feelings. But if the partner is sexually attractive for a long time, you may develop a true love.

Katya year ago divorced her husband, fell in love with another man. Neither of which reciprocity is no question. The fact that love with Katherine in a colleague who might not even aware of her feelings. "At first I carefully hid. And then suddenly, Sergei quickly went up the hill, his career has grown rapidly. And now I'm afraid of him to admit his feelings, because he can suspect me of self-interest ..."

Not knowing what to do, she continues to love silence.

Such love resembles the slavish dependence - "nothing pleases in life - quietly suffer and think only about him ..." hidden in it, oddly enough, an unconscious calculation, desire for success, wealth, recognition of - in short, everything that lacking in their own lives. If the calculation is done correctly and the second side really need to get it all the time needed, admired and idolized her, the relationship can emerge quite successfully.

Alexander - a very successful and wealthy man. But he wants to be loved not for money and opportunities, and in spite of everything. Sasha, he says, has long been looking for a girl with pure thoughts. But so far without success. "I have to check them. We communicate, we go somewhere else, but to her I did not call, and the bed is not dragging. With sex I have no problems, but not so on this way. I want to love me as a person, as a I myself, not as a mechanism to satisfy desires. But the girls, it seems, it's hard to understand ... "

Recognize true love can be at the stage of dating partners when it seems that they "know hundred years." But sometimes people do not even realize that they share such a strong feeling - the relationship can develop very ordinary and simple, without ardent passion and emotional intensity. On the part of such an alliance may even seem ordinary and boring. But the real love - it's a state of mind. And my heart good when calm.

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Oral sex causes cancer in men

The sharp increase in cases of throat cancer in men may be due to the popularity of oral sex. Help stop this epidemic ... vaccine for cervical cancer.

For several years, doctors urged young women to be vaccinated against human papillomavirus   (HPV), which is believed to cause cervical cancer . But now researchers from Europe and the United States began to accuse HPV in a sharp increase in the number of cases   Throat Cancer   among men. So that young people will now also be encouraged to be vaccinated against HPV.

Experts believe that in recent years people have become much more relaxed in bed. Popularity oral sex   It is very high, and this gives rise to a whole epidemic of squamous cell cancers affecting the throat, tonsils and base of the tongue. These types of cancer can be deadly. The saddest thing is that they are now increasingly affect very young men.

"We are doctors, holding a very bad job of educating the information - said Dr. John Dicken, an oncologist at Georgetown University. - Boys and girls should receive the vaccine human papillomavirus . Typically, throat cancer   It occurs in people older than 60, who are actively smoking (last vivid example - a disease of the actor Michael Douglas). But today we are seeing this type of cancer in young people, never smoked. "

If 20 years ago, only 20% of oral cancers have been associated with HPV, today the share human papillomavirus   more than half of all cases, as they say in a study published by the American Association for Cancer Research. Similar figures in Europe, as it became known after a recent study in Sweden. The level of recovery in this group of patients is higher than among smokers, but it is only about 50%.

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Sex disabled: gadgets for the joy of life

Disability and its corollary, the limited mobility can not be a reason for the rejection of sex, according to the developers of new technologies and devices. They help people with disabilities to regain the joy of sexual life.

Life of Brian Chavez changed forever the spring of 2005, when he fell from the sixth floor of the building and damaged the spine. The lower part of his body was completely paralyzed. "I was physically unable to do many things that are done before - says the 38-year-old Brian. - I think that now I will no longer shine, and sex."

But Chavez did not want to give up so easily. He learned the news on the Internet, advertising different products until finally he came across a chair IntimateRider (pictured), specifically designed for sexual life of persons with disabilities . Changes its position chair allows a sexual act as comfortably as possible, choosing a variety of positions.

Chavez and his girlfriend say that this chair to "liberate" their relationship. Creators IntimateRider and similar devices as well as those who use them, are convinced that the devices do not just make sex easier. Often only with their help people regaining one of the greatest pleasures of adult life, which is a huge positive for Psychology disabled . Needless to say, it increases self-esteem as a person.

Failure or significant limitations in sexual activity cause the disabled   the most severe and prolonged depression. Sometimes the lack of sex and relationships associated with it, oppresses man, even more than the inability to walk as before. That's why people with disabilities with the hope of watching the market a variety of gadgets and devices that facilitate sex life   people with disabilities. And it is gratifying to note the fact that manufacturers of such products is constantly bringing to market new, more advanced models.

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The epidemic of sexual addiction in the United States

In America, there was a rapid influx of male patients in rehabilitation centers, where people are treated for sex addiction. Psychologists have started talking about the effect of Tiger Woods.

In Russia, these men respectfully called womanizer. We complained of sex addiction stronger sex appeals to doctors in extremely rare cases. But in the US it's different. Popularity treatment   sex addiction   It rose sharply after the event with Tiger Woods .

The status of this golfer recently estimated that nearly $ 1 billion, he was considered the richest athlete of the planet. Lovely man, husband charming Swedish model Elin Nordgrin and happy father turned out to be a classic womanizer. It turned out that a few years of marriage, he cheated on his wife with dozens of mistresses.

A huge scandal erupted. From Tiger began to turn away advertisers, bringing his main income. The golfer went to a rehabilitation center to be treated for sex addiction But to preserve the family and the state it did not help him. Ellen Nordgrin left her husband, taking almost 50% of its capital.

Sexy temperament male differs from the female, as emphasized by psychologists. Some men "want to" almost always. When their friend "not in the mood," the stronger sex content with masturbation virtual sex, or start looking for links on the side. Very often this unbridled passion destroys long-term relationships and family.

Approximately 5-6% of Americans (the overwhelming majority of them men) are recognized sex addiction . And the case with Tiger Woods   It became for them the alarm bell. Sexologists say a surge in customers looking for treatment. Although until recently in the scientific world can not even come to the definite conclusion that can be considered sexual obsession   dependence equal to alcohol and drug.

Treatment at this relationship much of psychotherapy - popular in the US group therapy. However, experts at the disposal there are a number of special products that are used in extremely severe cases.

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Recipe porn: to whom the doctor prescribed?

Australian scientists have stood up for pornography ...

On the Green continent a group of experts led by psychology professor Alan McKee recently completed a curious study on the "strawberries". Interest in it among researchers is not idle. The fact that in recent years considerably increased the demand for porn movies   and the rest of spicy products, and at the expense of ordinary people, not what some perverts. Experts have tried to analyze the situation.

Actually, the story of the "strawberry" a very difficult and confusing. To begin with the fact that until now there is no single definition and arrange all that is " pornography ". Experts argue themselves hoarse, serious passions boil, and it is not moving. So Australian researchers have noticed that when it comes to pornography, people immediately included emotions, and scientific reasoning in this case - zero. And the arguments of those same fighters for morality sounds like this: " Pornography   It has no right to exist because it can not have such a right never. "

Meanwhile, according to a study by Professor Alan McKee, 90 percent of its respondents regularly review porn movies We demonstrated a very strong mentality. All of them was marked by healthy sleep, showed no signs of aggression or unfriendly. In addition, these people have had a very low propensity to depression, which in these times, great value. Professor Sam thinks that it is because pornography does not allow a person to be selfish, and teaches us to think about the pleasure partner. And in her characters look quite earth: for women, for example, you can see the cellulite on the entire screen and the man is not always up to par. And for those who watching porn , There is no complex about their own form and appearance can not be said about ordinary cinema.

Alan McKee in any case does not call people to drop everything and immediately start watch porn . He only advises weigh the "pros" and "cons", then to make a choice.

Pros:

Porn teaches

  Of course, not as a textbook on the native language, but still. Where, if not from pornography, you can see what people look like during an orgasm? And here you are, at any time be able to make sure that people at a time - it's ... yeah, actually, nothing special. Scientifically proven: the audience, regularly consume "strawberry", refers to sex is much quieter than those with solid circle taboo.

Supports ...

  Whatever was said, and erotic loneliness - it's not funny. That is quite a typical situation:   regular sexual partner   there is no money for professional love is not enough, and the nature of their demands. What to do? That's just it.

Makes a variety of ...

  Which, by the way, nowhere expressly taught. But we must learn. There are, of course, such as the publication of the Kama Sutra, but to use their recommendations may only yoga. For everyone else, there is only one solution - to explore the "strawberry" magazines, movies and pictures.

Against:

addictive

  However, like all pleasant. If within one year hard otsmatrivat all releases of pornographic materials, you can finally stop interest in their surroundings.

Things to think about

The vast majority of consumers of pornography - men. Many women are given circumstance, to say the least, frustrating. Imagine, in the intimate life is wonderful, and suddenly - accidentally found "strawberry". It's a shame!

However, sexologists claim that nothing dangerous in that there is no enthusiasm. Viewing pornography for a normal man - an acceptable, affordable way to detente and distraction from everyday situations. In part - a tribute to the polygamous nature of male sexuality. Female libido, for example, only benefits if there regular sexual partner . A man for the thrill is necessary to change partners. Pornography gives him such a need.

But if we are talking about a very rough and brutal sex, rape in real video format, it is an occasion to take a closer look at their owner.

It also happens that men are only interested in "narrow profile" porn - a fixation on one thing (eg, exaggerated big bust). Crime in this. But it is quite possible that the reason for this choice is a deep set of psychological or sexual nature. Over time, it can worsen and spoil the life of its owner. For example, it will cease to excite women with normal sized breasts.

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The more sex, the higher salary

Have sex at least four times a week, and it will help you earn more. This strange connection between making love and prosperity discovered by researchers from Anglia Ruskin University in England.

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So, scientifically proven have sex   at least 4 times a week, people are earning 5% more than those who do not have such a number of sex life. However, observations were made only among the Greeks. For a whole year, researchers led by Nick Draydekisom watching sexual activity and revenues 7500 Greek families.

The information was collected during the period January to December 2008, ie before the onset of the acute phase of the economic crisis that is raging in Greece that year. The relationship between the frequency having sex   and income can be traced quite hard, but the researchers can not say what is cause and what is effect. It is possible that a greater material prosperity leads to more intimate contact.

Draydekisa We have a few of their own theories. He believes that sex makes a person more healthy and happy, and such people, of course, make more money than poor and sick. In addition, high material prosperity increases the sexual attractiveness of the man in the person of its partners.

Most clearly the link between earnings and the size of the sexual life was traced in the age group from 26 to 50 years. The researchers found no difference in this respect between heterosexual and homosexual couples - and there, and there is a greater number of sexual acts leading to more revenue. Apparently, the increased sexual activity has a positive effect on working qualities of man. (READ MORE)

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Male penis begins to age after 30 years

Age-related signs, sooner or later catch up with anyone, and means to stop aging is not yet invented. However, the usual symptoms associated with the aging face of withering or the appearance of extra kilos, about sexual organs due to aging does not think none. As it turns out, in vain - the age at which affects as well as on the face.

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According to doctors, the men are often not prepared for the changes that occur to their reproductive organs. For most of them, this process begins after 30 years, accelerate aging genitals sedentary lifestyle, excess weight and bad habits. Men should not be scared, noticing some changes in the appearance of the penis.

So quite naturally can be a change in color of the glans penis. Due to the reduction of blood supply that occurs with age in all, it can become lighter, the overall tone at the same time cease to be uniform.

Another feature of the aging of the penis of a man is the penis as past years slightly reduced - to about 1 25 cm between 30 and 70 years. If along with the wrinkles around the eyes of a man grow more fat in the abdominal area, it is even more visually reduces the size of manhood. To get rid of the unpleasant effects, it is necessary to struggle with excess weight.

Do not forget that old age is reduced and the diameter of the male testes. (READ MORE)

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For men, orgasm is more important than love

Every fourth man considers regular orgasms much more important factor in a relationship than love, and ready to give every sixth woman who will not be able to satisfy him sexually. These results showed a sociological survey.

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One of the UK online retailers ordered a survey of 3800 men and women about what they value in life is sexual satisfaction. 16% of men and 10% of women without delay will end the relationship if their partner no longer give them orgasms. 39% of respondents believe the most important factor to achieve orgasm in a successful relationship.

Only less than half of the respondents are satisfied with the number of orgasms, which is available in their lives. It is noteworthy that when sociologists asked people whether they are satisfied with their relationship as a whole, the affirmative answer to this question is 60%. But when the issue touched the intimate aspects of life, the number of satisfied men immediately fell by 17% and women by 6%.

Responding to a question about what hinders achieve orgasm 20% of women and 23% men called main cause fatigue. The second most common reason among women was a problem with the perception of their own body (complexes because of the weight, looks, height, etc.), and the third - the lack of sexual desire. In men, the second place went to alcohol abuse, and the third worrying about work.

One in four of the respondents admitted to feeling the pressure because of the need reach orgasm   every time you have sex. Because of this 27% (!) Of the men and 69% of women in certain periods of time to successfully imitated orgasm. Experts in the field of intimate relationships strongly recommend that couples not to focus on orgasm, because it is not the only measure of the quality of sex. You can make love without orgasm - this is nothing strange or shameful. Of course, unless it becomes a habit. (READ MORE)

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