Sexual fears: M and M

To achieve sexual harmony dreams of each pair. But the road to the stars, as we know, lies through the thorns. To fully experience the joy of sexual life, partners sometimes have to overcome the fear of sexual intimacy.

Women's fears associated with sex

1.   One of the most common is the fear of "wrong" size of the vagina. Many people think that   vagina woman   should be narrower and narrower, the more fun it will be able to deliver a man. Meanwhile, the fairer sex often worry that "out there" they have too wide.

Try measure the vagina How do gynecologists, and you will see how well-founded fear.

When at rest the vagina consists of two freely pressed against each other fingers (index and ring), this indicates normal, normal size body. If you feel discomfort, and muscle tension, entry is likely very narrow. But if after the introduction of two fingers in the vagina freely enters a third means, vaginal muscles   weakened. Do not panic! In such cases, very good help Intimate gymnastics with exercises to train the muscles in the pelvic area.

By the way, the size of the vagina   is a purely individual anatomical features, not dependent on the growth or weight gain. Only in this case has the meaning - pelvic bone size, which in many cases is determined genetically.

2 . Another one intimate fear   the fairer sex is associated with the number of discharges. Women with increased hormonal allocation   They are very abundant. The result is much reduced frictional force on the penis of the vaginal wall and consequently dull the sensitivity (as in most women and men).

To solve the problem, you can use hormonal correction. Doctors prescribe   hormonal contraceptives Which block the release of estrogen in the blood, whose excessive activity and causes a large amount of grease.

3.   In some cases Low sensitivity   women during sex is due to decreased tone of the muscles of the vagina. Woman with fear thinking that she was frigid and under various pretexts to avoid sex. To sex was a joy,   vaginal muscles   be trained using a set of special exercises of gymnastics -   vumbildinga . But we should remember that the vaginal muscles is the same muscle group, like any other in our body. Her tone is largely dependent on the overall muscle tone of the body. It is therefore necessary to maintain the overall physical activity - jogging, swimming, tennis.

4.   Fear not reach orgasm "terrorizing" many women   during the next . And often this is due to the fact that man seeks directly to intercourse, while his partner is not enough excited. Female excitation mechanism by nature more sluggish than men, and the lack of foreplay brings a woman even pain. In the ancient Chinese and Indian treatises on love written that foreplay   You should be three to four times longer than the sexual act itself. And sexologists recommend that men bring your partner to orgasm   directly in front of the entry, and only then do the actual sexual act.

5.   Some people believe that women love   sex   with the lights off. And rightly so. Some women are very afraid to show partner "in all its glory." Stretch marks, cellulite, excess weight, not too firm breasts - these are common causes of pathological unwillingness to show their naked body. Unfortunately, this fear is often triggered by mass culture, publicly display perfect model body. Women often do not realize that all this beauty - simply the result of good work of stylists, makeup artists, and professionals svetoustanovschikov on Photoshop. And comparing himself with some "Covergirl" begin to be ashamed of their bodies.

What to do in such a case? Psychologists advise to talk with your partner and explain that you are confused. As a rule, quickly found out that the experiences of his own "imperfections" completely far-fetched, and no cellulite you have never noticed the man.

What men fear

That's what the statistics:

- More than 70% of modern men are afraid to be the first woman's sexual partner. More precisely, they are afraid of the responsibility for his role in this situation and unforeseen circumstances, further development options.

- 68% of men are afraid of comparisons with another man. Naturally, not in their favor.

- 46% of men are afraid of force majeure in the bed, which prevented them to satisfy his partner.

- 35% of proposals are afraid to try something new

- The greatest fear of men is sexual fear of pregnancy partner. This was during the poll said 84% of men.

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