Parents secretly break the privacy of children

20% of parents secretly trying to destroy the romance of their minor children, if they have chosen partners are not satisfied with the mothers and fathers. This result showed the 2000 survey of parents conducted by social scientists commissioned by the publishing house Penguin.

It turned out that every fifth mom and dad every fifth ready to great lengths to separate the daughter with her boyfriend and her son with my girlfriend, who do not fit into the idea of ​​adult ideal partner. For example, the parents do not transmit to their children left the message, take away or hide mobile phones secretly listen to phone conversations with loved children and even watch them on the street, to see where and with whom they meet. In this way the personal life of the child   destroyed.

Most often in such radical actions resolved mother. One in three admitted that she had won the battle for the separation of a child from the "bad" partner. Among fathers is ready only one in four. Overall, one-third of parents do not approve of the choice of their children's personal lives. And 10% did not approve it so that we are ready "to go to any extreme measures" to break the destructive, in their opinion, the relationship.

Three-quarters of parents are closely watching the personal life of the child   adolescence, and for half of the idea that their children can meet someone already seems unpleasant. 24% of parents believe that their children chose a "too old" partners.

23% of mothers and fathers and boyfriends of girls believe their children "problem", 22% believe that they do not like their family, while 16% are dissatisfied with their social origin. At the same time 10% of parents openly admit that this tactic has made a very serious strain on their relationship with the children, giving rise to a quarrel. But adults are sure that the child receives the benefit.

Psychology

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