Sex out of guilt is useful for marriage

Is it worth trying to placate a man having sex if you feel sorry for him? Canadian researchers have found that in such a situation better to have some kind of sex, than none at all.

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The reason you decide to have sex - from the usual drive up tearing your guilt - a very large extent affects how happy is your family life . Researchers in Canada have found that strengthen relations   useful to have at least some sex, than not to have any, because lovemaking give us joy. However, if you are trying to make amends for having sex some of his errors or sins, the partner will get less satisfaction from it.

strengthening relations

"There are two main reasons for which were held in long-term relationship or marriage partners have sex, - says study author Dr. Amy Mews at the University of Toronto. - One positive - you want to be closer to this man want strengthen relations . The second negative - you want to avoid strife, conflict or atone for the guilt. "

Dr. Mews asked more than 100 pairs to keep a diary in which every day would be celebrated the level of sexual desire and satisfaction from sex. The blog also had to write down the reasons why the partners decided to have sex. Entries lasted 2 weeks, and after each sex volunteers answered questions about what were their motives for sex.

It turned out that if the sex was pushing a positive reason, the partners felt much happier than if they had sex because of the negative reasons. By the way, it turned out that not only women but also men have sex out of a sense of guilt. But even such lovemaking brought more satisfaction than their absence. (READ MORE)

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